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On The Campaign Trail

Thursday, April 10th, 2008
Eddie left yesterday to spend two weeks as a volunteer in Barack Obama’s field operation in Hazleton, Pennsylvania. This gives me a perfect opportunity to show off two cool portraits of Obama created this year by two friends of mine.

The painting directly below is by Zina Saunders, who has a whole array of her similarly deft portraits currently displayed on her web site….

Art above ©2008 by Zina Saunders

…and the line drawing at right is by North Adams artist Sarah McNair, whose many accomplishments include contributing to the North County Perp.

Art at right ©2008 by Sarah McNair

Eddie and I are hoping that none of the ardent Clinton-supporters among our friends will get bent out of shape by our choice of candidates. Actually, we had a natural affinity for Dennis Kucinich, favored John Edwards in the Massachusetts primary, and wish both Hillary and Barack would pay more attention to some of the ideas at the core of their discontinued campaigns. But Edwards and Kucinich have withdrawn now and life goes on. Since one has to make choices in a democracy, we personally give Obama the edge right now when choosing between two contenders who each comes with drawbacks and strengths.

You can bet that we’ll be carrying the Hillary banner proudly in the general election, though, if she ends up copping the nomination. She’s not short on confidence-inspiring qualities (particularly when she lets her better angels carry the day). And we urge present-day Hillary folks to similarly work their butts off to elect Barack if his campaign for the nomination carries the day. Let’s don’t let the White House remain in the hands of the party that’s spent eight long years inflicting more damage on the U.S. than would have seemed humanly possible — even given the track records left by Reagan and Bush the dad.

Between Clinton and Obama, we think Omama offers more than his opponent does of what America needs in a leader today. So Eddie has packed his bags and headed to the Pennsylvania hills to act on his beliefs.

He does that kind of thing. It’s one of the attributes that made me fall for him 29 years ago.

R.I.P. Evelyn Sedarbaum (1913-2008)

Monday, March 24th, 2008
Evelyn left us this evening. She’s been very sick and it was time. We’re glad we have some really great smiles (see my previous blog entry) to remember her final days by.

She’ll be laid to rest next to Harold in Florida. Eddie and I will be flying to West Palm Beach tomorrow or Wednesday to prepare for her funeral on Thursday.

More news later.

In The Blue Bedroom

Saturday, March 22nd, 2008
Eddie’s mom has been back home for a couple of weeks now.

How’s she doing? Well, Evelyn’s got a lot more recovering to do in the wake of her recent hospitalization and subsequent stint in rehab, which can take a lot out of a 95-year-old.

But she’s happy to be undertaking her recovery in the newly forged, bright blue bedroom and bath that was waiting when she walked in the door. And we’ve been fortunate enough to secure the tender and capable services of Deborah Rock of Deborah’s Home Care, who takes care of Ev’s needs overnight while Eddie and I grab the sleep we need.
Yesterday Evelyn got a courtesy call from Luna Bemis and her mom Jessica, who along with Luna’s dad Andrew (who’s a fellow blogger; by the way; check out his ongoing commentary on movie matters at Cinevistaramascope) have been renting our upstairs apartment since last fall.
While Luna was sublimely gregarious as a three-month-old when the Bemises moved in last fall, she’s been experimenting lately with a new, shy persona. As you can see, having a green stuffed toy close at hand in which to bury your face when a camera gets whipped out comes in handy under such circumstances. (Or maybe she’s just playing peek-a-boo with Lulu.)

In the privacy of her home, however, Luna is less camera-shy. In fact, she was happy to show off her excellent taste in literature for her mom’s camera a few weeks ago.

And contrary to any suspicions you may be entertaining, Jessica insists that the picture was candid, not posed, and that Luna copped that particular book off a nearby coffee table strictly of her own volition!

Once she’s old enough to blurb instead of burble, I’ll know who to turn to for my books’ back-cover endorsements.

Onward and Upward

Thursday, January 24th, 2008
Regular readers of this blog know that for a while we’ve had Eddie’s 94-year-old mother Evelyn living here with us.

It’s been an adventure, but those days are over now.

As of today, we have Eddie’s 95-year-old mother Evelyn living with us.

That’s finef-’n-ninetzik in Yiddish, according to Evelyn.

P.S. I just noticed that our haunting and inspiring woodcut print of Frederick Douglass is peering over Eddie’s shoulder in one of the photographs above. That’s the work of our longtime friend Ann Grifalconi, the Caldecott Award-winning children’s book author and illustrator.

Transformers: Home Edition

Tuesday, January 15th, 2008
Above: "Cereal Lady" and Bazooka Joe,
two of this month’s newsletter offerings

I managed to put together Cruse Art Newsletter on time this week. Here’s me patting myself on the back for that.

Meanwhile Eddie and I are bracing ourselves for chaos as architectural plans are finalized for a home renovation project that’s going to turn our home life upside-down very soon.

See the room in the two photos below? That somewhat disorderly and yet homey living room containing a pleasant little old lady (that would be Evelyn, Eddie’s mom) and a serenely distracted dog (that would be Lulu the dalmatian) in full relaxation mode? Memorize what you see, because very soon this room in its present configuration will be history. Gone! Replaced!

Walls throughout our house will be ripped down; our entire configuration of rooms will be rearranged. Life in the Cruse-Sedarbaum dwelling will never be the same.

Instead, if all goes well, our home as reconstructed will be better suited for the 94-year-old woman who has recently become Eddie’s and my roommate. Our house as presently put together has been fine for Eddie and me during the three-and-a-half years we’ve lived in it, but what is safe and comfortable for us isn’t automatically so for Evelyn.

Eddie and I can get along quite easily without a bathroom that has an accessible shower, one that’s not a long walk through three dark rooms from where we sleep, and one that doesn’t include an illogical step downward at its entryway that is tailor-made to throw elderly folks with unsteady balance into a potentially bone-fracturing spill.

No, Evelyn’s needs are special, and we believe that the reconstituted house that we’ll theoretically end up with will make better sense for all concerned. We’re looking forward to living in it.

We are not looking forward to the weeks of disarray, dislocation, and debris-filled construction-work hell we’ll have to go through to get to it.

But hey! What’s life without a soupçon of gut-wrenching dread in it to keep us on our toes?

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The Swimmer Lady

Saturday, January 12th, 2008

Last week I wrote about my recording session for an adaptation that may or may not ever happen of The Swimmer With a Rope In His Teeth. Now I want to belatedly take note of the passing last April of the woman from whose imagination the book’s title character sprang.

I’m embarrassed to acknowledge that I didn’t post anything about Jeanne Shaffer’s death at the time I learned about it. I’m terrible at composing quickie obits when friends depart, and in the case of Doc Shaffer, her achievements merit better-rounded tributes that I can provide by folks who knew her better than I ever did.

Jeanne and I may have produced a book together, but our actual face-to-face visits were limited to maybe half-a-dozen. The visits we did have were sprinkled across a span of decades, the first of them occurring while I was an undergraduate drama-speech major at Birmingham-Southern College forty years ago.

1967, specifically. Jeanne, a composer and educator whose professional home base was at Huntington College in nearby Montgomery, envisioned an opera based on an allegory she had dreamed up about a swimmer who undertakes the rescue of an entire population of miserable people. Itching to start coming up with music for it, Jeanne was scouting for a librettist she could team up with.

Someone who knew that I was an aspiring playwright told her I might be interested in having a go at it. Ignoring the fact that I was a 23-year-old greenhorn, she chased me down and pitched the project.

I loved Jeanne’s story and spent a few months trying to nail down a proper approach. But although she was unfailingly encouraging throughout that period, I soon realized that I was in over my head. Just because I had written a few student plays and had listened to every musical comedy cast album in the Birmingham Public Library record collection didn’t automatically confer mastery of the opera libretto form. Chastened by my clear inadequacy, I begged off, and Jeanne graciously freed me from my commitment.

That could have been the end of it, but it wasn’t. Fifteen years later I popped back into Jeanne Shaffer’s life full of excitement about an entirely different way to tell her story. Our heroic swimmer, I told her, could be the protagonist not of an opera but of a comic book story. A story told with silhouettes.

(Why silhouettes? Maybe I’ll get into that another time; this blog entry is about Jeanne Shaffer.)

Now some practitioners of the "fine arts" (and Jeanne’s many musical compositions certainly placed her within those circles) might have looked down their noses at the comics form had they been approached with such an impertinent suggestion. But Jeanne had an adventurous streak and was unburdened by artistic snobbery. She was instantly intrigued by the radical recasting of her idea that I was proposing. Soon she was a certified enthusiast, and her enthusiasm persisted through the more than twenty additional years it took me to complete my adaptation, which mutated early on from a comic book story into a stand-alone book.

If Jeanne had been a more controlling storyteller she might have kept me on a tighter leash as I added my own touches to her fable and revved up its level of satire. But she rolled with the punches, paying me the compliment of trusting me to pretty much have my way with her tale.

Our only creative disagreement during Swimmer’s germination was resolved almost as soon as it appeared. Between the time of her story’s first telling in 1967 and my re-entry into her life in the mid-’80s, Jeanne’s natural generosity of spirit had led her to attach a slightly more hopeful conclusion to her story. I urged her to reconsider. I wanted to confront readers uncompromisingly with her tale’s darker implications and make them deal with it. Our title character may have been propelled by merciful impulses, I acknowledged, but the book itself needed to be merciless.

Mercilessness doesn’t come easily to gracious southern women, but Jeanne saw my point and let me restore her fable’s original ending.

You’d think that our decades-long marathon of creative cooperation and mutual appreciation would have left me more familiar with all aspects of Jeanne Shaffer’s life and personality than it did. Fact is: the ins and outs of Swimmer dominated most of our conversations, whether in person or on the phone. Anything else I’ve learned about her very interesting life history has been absorbed in chance fragments and on the fly.

I did learn that she was a former child actress in the movies. How cool is that? (As "Jeanne Ellis" she played Jeanette MacDonald’s childhood self in Girl of the Golden West.) She toured for five years with Paul Whiteman’s Orchestra beginning when she was eleven — an unusual entry to find in the résumé of a cultured Montgomery Episcopalian, I would say — and I learned just now from her entry in the online listing Classical Composers that she sang with Grace Moore on the Lux Radio Theater. (Hey, my brother and I used to lie awake at night listening to the Lux Radio Theater in Springville during the ’50s. I gather we were twenty years too late to catch one of Jeanne’s performances, unfortunately.)

Jeanne enjoyed a 35-year career as an educator and for thirteen years headed the Department of Visual and Performing Arts at Huntington. And long after her Lux days she became a radio personality again via the Southeastern Public Radio Network, hosting a weekly program on women’s music called Eine Kleine Frauenmusik.

Years ago I asked Jeanne if recordings of her music existed and she directed me to a CD of organ performances by Frances Norbert called Music She Wrote: Organ compositions by Women , which includes selections composed by Jeanne along with the work of others (most of it downloadable from the link above). I’m listening to her contributions to that CD as I write this.

The liner notes of the Norbert CD reveal that Jeanne wrote three musicals in collaboration with her distinguished husband Col. Robert S. Barmettelor. I wish I had known about that when the two of them invited me to dinner in 2002 after driving from Montgomery to hear me read selections from Stuck Rubber Baby and Wendel All Together at a Unitarian Church in Birmingham. I would have prodded them for gossip. I love hearing backstage theatre stories!

I gather that late in her career Jeanne must have played an important cheerleading role for female composers through her web site WomensMusic.com — a site that Google apparently thinks is still alive but that I’ve had no luck accessing this week, which makes me think it did not survive its founder. (If you have better luck than I did, let me know.)

It doesn’t surprise me that teaching, mentoring, and helping other creative people was a strain that ran through the long, productive life that Jeanne led, since even though I personally experienced only a small sampling of her many facets, being giving was the tack she reflexively took with me. Who was I, anyway? An openly gay cartoonist who had gained his chops in underground comix whom she had previously experienced only as a green college-age playwriting wannabe who couldn’t get his act together, materializing out of nowhere after a decade-and-a-half of non-contact to announce that Hey, you oughta be in comics!

"OK," she said. "Put me in comics."

She continued her pattern of givingness by allowing me a huge degree of creative latitude as I expanded and reshaped her story into something very different in its details from the one she first imagined, but one that still had the same concerns about human folly that she had originally invested it with. At least I hope it did. Jeanne never hinted that it didn’t.

The Swimmer lady is gone now, and I’ll never get a chance to ask her what Jeanette MacDonald was really like. But we came away from our three decades of glancing interactions with a book to show for it that has both of our names on the cover.

How cool is that?!

Me At The Mike

Sunday, January 6th, 2008
Here’s me (see above) with a really formidable microphone hovering in front of my face. The snapshot was taken last week while I was recording the text from my 2004 adaptation of the late Jeanne Shaffer’s fable, The Swimmer With a Rope In His Teeth.

Lending his technical expertise to this endeavor was my pal Jason Brown (below), a multi-talented audio whiz and entrepreneur who with his wife (and my friend from college days) Nicky Heron produces audio books from their home studio in south Berkshire County. Their finished products are marketed through Jason’s BMA Audio web site.

At left: The BMA CD of Berkshire Stories, a selection of writings about nature by Morgan Bulkeley, Sr.

Poke around in the BMA online store and you’ll also find recorded works by Henry James (The Siege of London), Edith Wharton (The House of Mirth), and others.

I don’t mean to give anyone the impression that any commercially released audio book of Swimmer is being contemplated. The book as printed contains pictures galore, but the text is so brief it could probably be read aloud in its entirety while waiting in line at the Dunkin Donuts drive-thru lane at Route 2 and Eagle Street.

No, what I’m toying with is a (very) limited-animation version of the allegory using Adobe Flash. The notion of creating such a version of Swimmer has long appealed to me despite the fact that I have virtually no spare time to work on it.

In other words, it’s a presently unfunded bit of digital hobbyism that may never see completion or reach an audience. But even so, Jason is generously helping me create a preliminary soundtrack for it. Thanks to him, I may be able to move my experiment along a step or two further when time does permit. (Maybe I can get a grant or something.)

Writing about my projected reworking of this fable makes me want to say a few words, albeit belatedly, about the passing of Doc Shaffer last April, which I failed to note at the time because, well, I don’t find it easy to whip up comments about such losses on short notice.

It seems best, though, to reserve those relections for a separate blog entry, which I hopefully will find time to compose later this week.

Thanksgiving and a Postscript

Wednesday, December 5th, 2007
Whee-ooo! Thanksgiving was two weeks ago, wasn’t it? And with my usual promptness, I’m finally assembling a few snapshots from that weekend.

Not from our actual Thanksgiving meal, of course. That would suggest an uncharacteristic presence of mind on my part. No, the best I can provide from the Big Day itself is this shot of our new roommate and household matriarch Evelyn Sedarbaum presiding over some culinary preparations before the excitement had really begun.

Once our friends Richard and Tony arrived to share the holiday with us, all bets were off. In other words, despite the exquisite forethought Eddie exhibited before our pals arrived by placing our camera right in the middle of the table as a reminder, my ever-reliable absent-mindedness nevertheless ruled the day.
Only after the meal was over and Richard and Tony had departed did my eyes fall on the camera my hubby had placed so strategically. Naturally, it had gone untouched the whole time. How to convey to you the fun we had with our longtime friends from New York? The best I can do is show you a 26-year-old cartoon showing Richard and Tony on one of their camping trips that I drew to illustrate one of Richard’s essays in days of yore. (Just imagine them made of flesh and blood and munching turkey and turnips at our dining table instead of snuggling in some wilderness locale under the scrutiny of Pogo and Lord Baden-Powell).
Chastened by my Thanksgiving failure as a photojournalist, I performed better the following Saturday when assorted relatives converged on our North Adams home for a most enjoyable banquet made up largely of leftovers from the previous Thursday’s banquet.

Shall I prodide a play-by-play account of their arrival on our metaphorical red carpet? OK, here goes. From the west (meaning Schenectady, Albany, and Minneapolis) came Jen the Niece, Cousin Betty, and Second-cousin Faith…

…and from the east (meaning Boston) and south (meaning Florida, from whence Aunt Sony had traveled to Boston for a visit with the young’uns) come Cousin Jessica, Cousin-in-law Harry, and the aforementioned Sony.
After a little chatter, we all dove into the eats.
Our convivial Saturday munch-a-thon couldn’t technically be called a true "Thanksgiving dinner," since by law those must take place on Designated Thursdays. Nevertheless, the vibes were so cheery that Norman Rockwell himself (whose "Freedom From Want" Saturday Evening Post cover painting has made him patron saint of the holiday forever) would surely have given us his blessing.

And speaking of Norman Rockwell…

I also dutifully took my camera along with me to the recent opening of the Lit Graphic exhibit at the Norman Rockwell Museum in Stockbridge, determined ro break my pattern and come away with some snapshots of the event. Sadly, my pattern remained intact. Only as I was driving home did I realize that I had forgotten to take a single picture.

Fortunately, a couple of my cartooning colleague have come to the rescue by allowing me to show you snapshots that they took.

Above: My colleague, the inspiring Peter Kuper, supplied this shot of me fielding reporters’ questions about the pages of Stuck Rubber Baby that are included in the show.

At left: Cartoonist and educator Marek Bennett sent me this shot, taken with his camera, of the two of us, (Notice the strap across my shoulder from which my own camera dangles forgotten and unused. Am I a hopeless case or what?!!)

Below: Marek also snapped me standing longside Dave Sim, the legendary and indefatigable creator of Cerebus.

The Return of Evelyn

Wednesday, October 17th, 2007
At right: Ev disembarks after being chauffeured by Eddie from Albany International Airport.

She comes north! She goes back south! Then north again; then south again! Where will jet-setter Evelyn Sedarbaum eventually decide to settle?

At age 94 it hasn’t been easy for Eddie’s newly-widowed mom to decide where she wants to put down her post-Harold roots, and she’s changed her mind already several times.

Is she prepared to endure winters in the Berkshires? Can her arthritis make peace with the stairs she has to climb if she wants to come and go from our house on Cliff Street? On the other hand, is living by herself in flat-and-warm Florida preferable to living in North Adams with Eddie and Howie? How to decide?

The current and presumably final verdict is that the pleasure of breakfasting every morning with her son and son-and-law trumps any competing comforts that the Sunshine State can offer. And considering what wonderful company Eddie and I are, can anyone question that her decision is the right one?

Below left: Eddie escorts his mom to her new home. Below right: Yikes! That staircase from street level to front yard suddenly reminds Evelyn of one reason she had thought life might be easier in hill-less West Palm Beach! Well, life is full of trade-offs, isn’t it?

Mom’s Juicy Again

Friday, October 12th, 2007
This Saturday night I’ll be in North Adams recovering from the first of two days spent shmoozing with the art-lovers pouring into town for Open Studios, but if I were in New York City you can bet I’d be at the launch party for Juicy Mother 2.

The Juicy Mother "queer comix" anthology series is the brainchild and pet project of cartoonist Jennifer Camper, who put together the first installment a year ago and is now back with more, thanks to Manic D Press, who stepped into the breach when the first volume’s publisher was forced to scale back its commitments.

With the new book hitting bookstores now, it’s time to party! And as I’ve learned from experience there’s nobody more fun to party with than Ms. Camper, whose been a best buddy of mine since her comic strip "She’s My Two-Timin’ Truck-Drivin’ Mama" popped over the proverbial transom while I was putting together the second issue of Gay Comix in 1980.

Above: the book’s cover; a panel from my own morose one-page; and Jen Camper herself with a panel from her JM2 contribution.

So it you’re in or near the Big Apple on Saturday the 13th, hie thee downtown to Bluestockings (172 Allen Street) so you can meet a bunch of the Juicy Mother contributors. Not all of them can be there, of course, but some who will reportedly be making the scene are Diane DiMassa, Ivan Velez, Jr., Joan Hilty, Victor Hodge, David Hooper, Fly, Michael Fahy, Katie Fricas, and Chitra Ganesh.

Meanwhile, if you pick up the book you can also spend quality time with comics by the other JM cartoonists who, like me, can’t make it to Bluestockings this weekend (or if they can, are keeping it a secret so they can make a splashier entrance). They are Alison Bechdel, Tristan Cowen, Jamaica Dyer, Leanne Franson, Justin Hall, G. B. Jones, David Kelly, Robert Kirby, Carrie McNinch, Erika Moen, Sara Rojo Pérez, Karen Platt, Carlo Quispe, Lawrence Schimel, Ariel Schrag, Serpilla, Scott Treleaven, Robert Triptow, and Stephen Winter.

The are more Juicy Mother 2 events to come in other cities, by the way, so mark your calendars if you’re gonna be in Boston on November 4 (4 PM at the Center for New Words) or in Philadelphia on December 1 (at Robin’s Bookstore; check locally for the exact time). I can’t make it to the Philly signing but expect to be at the Boston one (along with Jen and Dianne).